Change is necessary.
So is routine. 

Can't you see that life's greatest gifts come from both. 
Growth comes from all areas of your life, it's about balance. Holding on, letting go. Learning from mistakes, making them again. Grief from said mistake. Realization that it's actually not a mistake at all, but misdirection. The entire experience was here to redirect you to something better, higher. Redirection in its wildest sense.

Redirection is necessary. 

To your wildest sense.